u/secretaussieagent

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Earworm Struggle/Music loops

Hi! Im new here. Glad to have found my people and hoping to get some insight on an issue im having this week.

Context:

I have severe category OCD. I also have trauma around betrayal and abandonment that I wont discuss but it adds context to the issue Im writing about. Additional context, music really controls my mood and can trigger intrusive thoughts and those feelings of abandonment if I choose certain themes or genres. Music moves me, what can I say?

Honestly I have learned to cope really well with my ocd especially after getting a diagnosis, putting a name to things really helped. But this week im struggling badly with a massive case of earworm.

earworm /ˈɪəwəːm/ noun 1. a catchy song or tune that runs continually through a person's mind.

"the whole album is packed full of earworms that get stuck in your head"

Current issue:

I have the song 'How does it feel to be forgotten?' By Selena Gomez stuck in my head. I dont even like the song or her music (personally. I do think she's a great artist.) I have the main lyrics stuck in my head on loop, going on 3 days. Music controlling my mood and triggering intrusive thoughts also means the lyric and atmosphere of the snippet sound is really triggering and causing a kind of depression and deep sadness.

Imagine hearing "How does it feel to be forgotten?" in your head for 3 whole days. Im finding comedy in it but im also very sad.

My question: does this happen to you? How do you cope? Any theories around this or research?

Thanks!

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u/secretaussieagent — 2 days ago