First job in Nelspruit - how do I make friends?
So the title speaks for itself: I've been in (kinda) Nelspruit (a nearby place, omitted for privacy), for almost 3 months now.
I just graduated from Stellies to work as a Mechatronic Engineer in training. And it's been lonely, man. I keep myself busy; I paint, read, make music, play silksong, do all kinds of projects. But I miss people.
It's hard. This is my first job. And I am a young person, and a woman, in a workplace of mostly older guys. It's hard to make friends at work, and the philosophy is largely 'every man for himself'.
I don't miss the stress of univeristy, but I do miss my friends. I miss not having to 'perform' (people at my work love to remind me that I am essentially on a 2 year long interview, and every move I make must be calculated and intentional - no pressure).
I miss my church. I miss the deep talks about Jesus and the people who genuinely cared.
I know this is all standard procedure of reminiscing about "what was" as soon as the new chapter in life begins for any young person. But I want to seek a solution.
How can I make friends? Especially in this area? Are there any cool clubs or activities? I would love to hear some advice.
I am extremely grateful that I have my degree, and my job, and a place to stay. And I know I'll be fine whatever may come. But it would be nice to thrive and make friends beyond the scope of just surviving. Life's just too short, y'know?