u/qweenofsus

Image 1 — Desert goby skinny and not eating
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Desert goby skinny and not eating

Hi, I’ve had my goby for a few months and really, he is my absolute favourite fish. The tank has been fully cycled since about October of last year and everyone has been thriving with exception to a loss of a few guppies and tetras.

I was away for a month and someone was watching our fish and cats - when I return everyone is doing great with exception to my goby who now seems to be refusing food and quite skinny. (His belly is concave inwards) His coloration seems to be bright still and normal. Otherwise he seems to be acting normal- lazy, possible slightly more than usual. But despite me putting food in front of his face he seems to be ignoring it.

I have just moved him to this “hospital tank” really it’s a plastic container because that’s all I have. I tried to make it as comfy as possible for him tho And YES I KNOW ITS FILLED WITH FOOD. (I will swap out the water with the main tank water later and make sure it’s clean of course after he had a chance to eat leisurely!) he finally ate one blood worm but I’m still concerned he is ignoring food when he used to chomp it all like a crazy lizard.

My question is- is this simply stress from being possibly outcompeted while I was away and not target feeding? Or does he have parasites? Should I continue to isolate him until he eats better again (if he can manage to 🤞) should I put some medication in his water? Is this because I haven’t been able to find him a girlfriend yet? Is he depressed? Are my parameters somehow wrong for him? Am I just paranoid??

0 nitrites

0 ammonia

10 nitrates (planning on doing a water change tomorrow)

Gh 8~

Ph 7~

Kh 6

80°f (26.5c)

Thanks!

u/qweenofsus — 24 hours ago

Finding midwife with TK

Hi all, I read on TK website that a midwife is covered by insurance and I asked my ob if she had recommendation- but she told me that midwives aren’t covered by insurance and that she doesn’t have any recommendations.

I’m a bit lost. Does anyone know how to find a midwife covered by insurance? Or is TK not exactly telling the truth…

Also I am from a country where midwives aren’t quite as common- will they help me with my plan and choosing the hospital etc? I also read that as part of the birth plan there are certain things you must ask for in advance, like gas and a pool. Would a midwife help me arrange this/ guide me on how to do it?

Thanks!! ❤️

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u/qweenofsus — 2 days ago

First trimester weight gain

I never thought I’d be making a post like this. I know it’s normal for my body to gain weight now and frankly it is low on my list of concerns but I’m looking for some insight.

I’m 5’5 (165cm) , I was about 120 pounds but I was guessing I went up to 130 (58kg) so I wrote that on my dr appt form yesterday but she weighed me and I’m like 140 pounds now suddenly. (64kg) I gained all that in the last 3 weeks.

On top of that I’m only 8+5 and I’ve been congratulated by people and asked if I’m expecting. It already really looks like I have a baby bump and my boobs are massive.

Since I was doing ivf I really didn’t work out at all the last 2.5 months out of an abundance of caution. I was just given the green light from my doc to resume normal activity which I’m very excited about. Today I just did yoga for the first time in that long and god I am so out of shape. Previously I was doing power yoga daily + 16 k steps.

My question is- if I resume that once again since I’m now allowed to, and cut out dessert type stuff, is there hope of me becoming toned and fit again and having one of those very “fit pregnancies” or is it necessary for my body to carry more fat?

Either way I’m just so grateful for this baby and I will do whatever I have to to be healthy. I’m just a bit bummed because it feels like overnight literally none of my clothes fit me. I’m lounging in bed in pjs cuz I can’t find a pair of pants. Moneys tight and I was not prepared to have to buy a whole new wardrobe right now….

Thanks! ❤️

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u/qweenofsus — 3 days ago

8+4 ultrasound today so nervous 😥

Hi all I just wanted to post here to get some happy stories from other nervous people. I’m 8+4 today and I have my second ultrasound in about 30 minutes. I’m about to go to the clinic and I’m just so nervous. I know this feeling is normal but my symptoms got a lot less a few days ago and it just worries me if the little berry is doing ok in there. It took me 5 FETs to get here so the idea of going thru that again is… terrifying.

Also at the same time I’m so excited to see how much it grew since 6+5 as I know it’s a lot and I’m hoping to see a wiggle and little arms and legs. Also for the German girlies I’m so excited to get the mutterpass. I know it’s silly but I’m pretty excited about that.

I’ll update after but send me luck pls 🍀 ❤️

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u/qweenofsus — 4 days ago