Why do they act like the relationship never happened?
That’s the one thing I can’t understand , how you can be in a romantic relationship for years and after they hurt you , they treat you badly , they abuse you emotionally and psychologically but they are the one who gets angry and decides to erase the relationship and erase you acting like none of it ever happened. The one you’d expect and understand doing that is the one who got abused you’d expect them to want to forget the whole relationship because they are so hurt. My ex not taking any accountability , not saying sorry and not feeling bad for everything he did to me that doesn’t shock me , it hurts so much but it doesn’t shock me because I know the type of person he is he’s a narcissist so of course taking accountability is something he will never do. What did absolutely break my heart and mess up my mind is him acting like all those years we were together ever happened he even said to me “what relationship? I don’t know what you’re talking about.” So cold hearted and cruel, I don’t understand why they do this it hurts so much