I know "financially stable" could mean a lot of different things to different people.
But at what age did you become financially stable according to your own standards?
Just for fun 😊
-someone still living paycheck to paycheck (thrift everything, coupon food, no vacations, 17 year old car, 2 young kids) lol
We have a trip in a couple weeks where we will be taking our 3 year old and 8 month old.
When originally booked, we had a layover of 2+ hours. This was especially important because we will be taking carseats on the plane (multiple reasons - there's no way logistically around this).
American ended up changing our second flight time and moved it up. We will be landing in Philadelphia (assuming no delays) at 9:45a, and now our second plane takes off at 10:52a.
I've never been to Philadelphia airport before. In my mind, boarding will close at 10:37, which gives us at most 52 minutes to deplane, lug carseats, and find our gate. Our seats are right in the middle of the plane for both flights.
My husband and I have flown several times, but this is our first time with kids.
Can someone please give advice on making this connection assuming there aren't any delays? Anything logistically? I'm planning on having the 3 year old use the bathroom on the first plane before landing. Anyone also familiar with Philadelphia airport & what it's like?
If you think I'm a little anxious about this you would be correct lol. Rescheduling the 2nd flight to a later time would be $900+ which isn't something we can really do right now.
Anyone who can give peace of mind or advice, it would be greatly appreciated as I'm a newbie at traveling with kids. Thank you!!!
I need Godly advice. I'm kind of at a crossroads in life. Background: I'm upper-20s. I've been a stay-at-home mom for a few years & we have two young kids.
Long story short, over the past year I've been feeling the pull to go into nursing. I shortly pursued it before I married my husband, but after getting married I quit school & worked as a receptionist until we had kids.
I've been thinking that it's something that I would pursue when my kids were older or even grown.
Well, over the past couple months, I've been thinking I should go ahead and just do it now. I had a near-death complication after giving birth to our 2nd last year that made me realize that life is short. I don't want to miss fulfilling a calling that God has for my life, which I believe He *has* called me to nursing.
To complicate things further, my husband has a chronic lust/porn issue, once even talking to other women online (he hasn't done that for 6 years to my knowledge, but porn is still an issue). That's another conversation in & of itself, but I have major trust issues toward him. I know that's so bad to say, but it's true. My parents also divorced after adultery took place in their own marriage, so add that to my husband's behavior, and I'm fearful that someday my husband will go all the way & leave me for another woman. And then I will have stayed home & not have any way to support myself or my children.
That brings me to now. I've already signed up for courses starting this fall, and am heavily considering doing a CNA program over the summer so I can start working part-time while in school to pay my bill.
But as I get into the details of it, securing daycare, buying a second car for me to get a job, etc., I can't help but question my decision & wonder if this is truly what's best for my kids.
I always thought I'd stay home & homeschool & everything would be calm & peaceful like social media lol 😂
My other concern is the instruction in Titus 2 which is that the older women are to teach the younger women to be workers at home. And I feel like I'm failing God by going into the workforce. My oldest is 3 years and my youngest is 8 months. It makes me sad to leave my baby at daycare, but I know she would adapt. And again I also have the mindset of having my own income if my husband were to ever leave or if something bad were to happen to him, God forbid.
We also are struggling BAD financially. I've been doing DoorDash, Instacart, etc when my husband gets home in the evenings because we literally cannot afford living on his income alone, no matter how much rice & beans we eat. It's bad. We are debt free thankfully by God's grace. My husband has applied to literally hundreds of higher paying jobs in his field to no avail. So if I go work & do school, my whole paycheck will go to daycare...that is, unless I become a nurse & then it would be better financially.
I just can't discern if God wants me to stay home with my babies or if it is better for me to go work & do school. I have prayed & prayed & prayed. I have been in His Word. And yet I don't feel complete peace about either route. I welcome any and all advice on what the wiser decision is.
If you've read this far, THANK YOU. I just wanted to give the whole picture so people can give appropriate advice.