u/old-fat

In early Febuary Fidelity recieved a QDRO order from the judge in my divorce case that I was the alternate payee and to transfer retirement a few retirement accounts to me. It's been over three months and the retriement accounts haven't been transferred yet.

I have called several times a month to inquire about the status of the transfer and while the customer service agents are pleasent and professional they cannot give me any information other than the back office is really busy...

While this isn't a make or break situation it's the last item in a very stressful time in my life. I would really like to get this done so I can move on in my life. I can easily omagine that for some people this money would really help them.

It seems like this process is unregulated and I have very few options except to sit here and take it. If anybody has any suggestions on how I can apply some leverage to get Fidelity to get motivated I would really appreciate it.

What water conservation hacks do you use? How much water do you use per person per day? (We use about 4 gal/person/day). I'm out on an extended work/ boondocking trip in the desert. The closest water source is about a 2 hour drive one way so I'm trying to conserve as much as possible. We should have enough water to finish the job if we conserve a bi. But the next job is fairly remote so I'm planning ahead.

I'm doing all the obvious things like peeing and pooping in the desert. Brushing teeth outside too.