why does everyone always prioritze cold people over hot?
kinda dumb but as someone who chronically overhearts, even in 20c weather, WHY IS IT ALWAYS THAT PEOPLE ONLY CARE IF YOU ARE COLD? any time i express that im boiling, even if for everyone else its only slightly warm, no one gives a fuck or they just tell me to drink some water. but any time someone is cold, the heating always is pumped up. i do go to an alt school and my family and i have made it very clear that i need a cool environment, but every time i go its an oven. and this time its not even just me noticing it, its because the building usually runs cold (for others, still warm as fuck to me) so they lways have the heating cranked up. theres a fan but honestly it doesnt help just makes annoying wind. anything else that could help me not overheart either doesnt work or is so embarrassing that my social anxiety cant handle it. but any time someone mentions being cold, the heating goes on. are people stupid? if you are cold, you can lways add an extra layer, blow into your hands, or something. if you're hot? you can't just take your clothes off. and being hot is more uncomfortable than cold (for me). every day im sweating my tits off, face and arms red, i have to wear a jacket to cover the red arms but then i just get hotter, i stink within 5 minutes, i genuinley cant stand it.