Hi! Most of friends got married/kids and moved so I’m looking for a strictly platonic friend who can hangout at least few times a month, even if it’s grabbing coffee and catching up for 15 mins. My interests are vast but I’m not really deeply into anything. For example, I love anime but I’m not an otaku. I’m a rock/metal fan, but it’s been years since I went to a concert. I can have conversations about a lot of topics like science, philosophy, anthropology, cars, soccer. I am very active and love movies/TV (favs are Manchester by the Sea/True Detective S01)
I’m also a little boring (work+gym+8hr sleep and repeat) and drink/smoke minimally but I’m happy to grab a beer or be your DD and go to emo night. I’m just saying I don’t want the expectation to for me to be cool or funny or super social. I’m also an Asian immigrant so bear w the trauma a bit lol. I’m also a terrible texter but I’ll show up in person and put in the effort to make plans.
But there’s a few things I’d like to try and would like a consistent mate to go with. Try a hip hop dance class. Try new cuisines. Try the vroom vroom race track. Try the korean bath house, etc. We could also go to various events in town: Miller theater, Cinco de mayo, Anime cons, farmers market, etc. We could also volunteer together. We could even travel together, visit some national parks. A few of the upcoming concerts I’m interested in are Flyleaf, Silverstein, and Foster the People. Down to start new hobbies together too like book clubs or learning a musical instrument; what can I say, I’m just a bored unc.
I’d prefer friends that are 27-37 in age and are looking for real long-term friends who don’t flake, have a little bit of disposable income to do activities, have free time/bandwidth in the weekends, live near the loop, not one-sided, have upstanding morals and can take a little bit of roasting.