u/msallure_04_80_msmac

Hello fellow warriors, 27 female, living with AS since I was 7-8 years
I am about to get married in an arrange marriage setup, I’ve told the guy about my diagnosis but sinfe he works in a different field he doesn’t seem to care much about it. Maybe because he hasn’t lived with me yet so he cannot tell the severity
He talks about having babies at some point
5 months left for my wedding
Im concerned im ruining his life
I will turn into a burden on him
I am currently taking tofacinib BD, I dont know if its pregnancy safe or not, what if I have an unplanned pregnancy, will I able to keep it because I was taking tofacinib before pregnancy
Should I tell him that there is a risk of me passing this on to my kids genetically
He is supportive so far, he says he will take care of me but what if it all changes once we get married and sees the health issue head on
Ive never tried biologics because tofacinib works well for me
Moreover the pain is localised to one of my knee and one hand, back doesnt seem to bother me much so far