u/mrsmendes

I'm starting this journey because my life lacks any structure. My goal is to slowly start building routines in my every-day life so I can fight chronic depression more effectively. Right now I struggle with basic hygiene, my sleep schedule is all over the place, I struggle with taking my meds every day, I procrastinate a lot, and outside of work I don't really do much because I'm always exhausted. I also struggle with phone addiction, my screentime easily goes above 12+ hours on days when I'm not working...

Day 5 and 6 have been a blur because I was working a night shift, and it messed up my daily routine I have been working on, I didn't have time for everything that I wanted to do.

Day 5:

  • Brushed teeth in the morning and evening, also used mouthwash before going to work if I can remember correctly
  • Took meds - morning, vitamin D, evening, plus I started taking cranberry supplements, but (I believe) it's giving me weird symptoms, so I might have to stop, accidentally missed my iron supplement
  • Washed face, brushed hair
  • Made bed, vacuumed floors, I think I might've even mopped the floors, not sure
  • Left house 6 days in a row

Things to improve: didn't shower because I figured since I showered last night and didn't leave the house until I went to work, and I didn't do anything that'd make me sweat it'd be pointless, but I definitely should've washed my hair because it was greasy already.

Day 6:

  • Took all meds - morning meds, vitamin D, iron, cranberry, evening meds
  • Brushed teeth only in the evening... I was so sleepy in the morning I forgot
  • Brushed hair
  • Washed hair, showered, moisturized
  • Vacuumed, made bed but there was no point, because I ended up spending the rest of the day in bed lol... Wasn't depressed, just sleepy
  • Left the house 7 days in a row

Downloading Finch has helped me a lot with prioritizing self-care and making sure I tick as many things off my list as possible, so thanks to whoever recommended it on my first post here, it's been a great tool for me!

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u/mrsmendes — 10 days ago

I'm starting this journey because my life lacks any structure. My goal is to slowly start building routines in my every-day life so I can fight chronic depression more effectively. Right now I struggle with basic hygiene, my sleep schedule is all over the place, I struggle with taking my meds every day, I procrastinate a lot, and outside of work I don't really do much because I'm always exhausted. I also struggle with phone addiction, my screentime easily goes above 12+ hours on days when I'm not working...

Day 4: Had a really productive day, plenty of energy to complete my goals! Cleaned a lot and finally got to doing dishes, altho I'm not finished yet. Hopefully I can do the rest of day 5.

  • Took all my meds for the day + added iron supplement
  • Cleaned: vacuumed, mopped floor, made my bed, did half of the dishes, folded clothes, picked up trash around house, took out trash
  • Cleaned cat litter, fresh water bowl
  • Trimmed both finger and toenails
  • Brushed hair
  • Brushed teeth both in the morning and evening, my electric toothbrush had to be recharged which I was really happy about, means I use it a lot. 😃
  • Went out 5 days in a row, didn't spend any money
  • Showered, moisturized

Things to improve: sleep schedule, eating schedule: I messed up and ate some snacks right before bed and after washing my teeth because I was hungry...

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u/mrsmendes — 12 days ago

I'm starting this journey because my life lacks any structure. My goal is to slowly start building routines in my every-day life so I can fight chronic depression more effectively. Right now I struggle with basic hygiene, my sleep schedule is all over the place, I struggle with taking my meds every day, I procrastinate a lot, and outside of work I don't really do much because I'm always exhausted. I also struggle with phone addiction, my screentime easily goes above 12+ hours on days when I'm not working...

Day 3: I significantly had less motivation today compared to the last 2 days, but I think I still had a pretty productive day for a low-energy one, and my main goal is not to spend the whole day in bed, which didn't happen, so I deem the day as a successful one. Didn't really try to restrict my phone usage, so unfortunately I racked up 11 hours and 23 minutes of screentime... Well. Let's hope tomorrow will be better.

  • Took morning and evening meds and vitamin D during the day, organized pill box.
  • Brushed teeth BOTH in the morning and evening, very proud of this one. I noticed I hate standing while brushing my teeth, so I started sitting down, much more bearable this way. Also found out using mouthwash right after brushing your teeth is actually counterproductive?! So I used moutwash once during the day.
  • Brushed hair a few times during the day to avoid it getting matted.
  • Changed cat's water bowl and cleaned cat litter.
  • Cleaned shower drain.
  • Went out for the 4th day in a row, also proud of this one because I decided to go to a store that's a bit further away so I walk more, altho I kinda regretted it later on, because it was very busy and packed with people, so it was quite overwhelming.
  • Used wallet app to track finances.
  • SHOWERED and moisturized for the second day in a row, I actually enjoyed it today and didn't take too much energy to convince myself to do it.

Things to work on: didn't end up doing the dishes like I was planning to to, also avoided some important responsibilites that I'll only have the chance to do again on Monday next week. Hope everyone has a nice day!

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u/mrsmendes — 13 days ago

I'm starting this journey because my life lacks any structure. My goal is to slowly start building routines in my every-day life so I can fight chronic depression more effectively. Right now I struggle with basic hygiene, my sleep schedule is all over the place, I struggle with taking my meds every day, I procrastinate a lot, and outside of work I don't really do much because I'm always exhausted. I also struggle with phone addiction, my screentime easily goes above 12+ hours on days when I'm not working...

Day 2: Started off great, I couldn't sleep, so instead of continuing to toss and turn, I took a shower for the first time in probably a week, and even washed my teeth for the first time in forever. (don't judge please, I've really been going through it)

  • Showered, even shaved, put on lotion
  • Brushed teeth twice in the morning and evening, used mouthwash in the morning
  • Washed hair, brushed hair multiple times throughout the day to avoid it getting matted (I struggle with this a lot)
  • Vacuumed
  • Did 2 loads of laundry, folded clothes
  • Cleaned cat litter, changed water in cat's water bowl
  • Discovered a "new" (for me) artist I enjoy
  • Went out for the 3rd day in a row (grocery shopping once again, need to find new ways to motivate me to leave the house)
  • Updated my finances in the wallet app
  • Took AM and PM medications, and vitamin D during the day
  • Put phone in lockbox at the end of the day, overall time spent on phone: 6 hours and 15 minutes

Hope I can keep it up on day 3, my biggest goal is to do the dishes that have been piling up for a week today. Have a nice day everyone!

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u/mrsmendes — 14 days ago

I'm starting this journey because my life lacks any structure. My goal is to slowly start building routines in my every-day life so I can fight chronic depression more effectively. Right now I struggle with basic hygiene, my sleep schedule is all over the place, I struggle with taking my meds every day, I procrastinate a lot, and outside of work I don't really do much because I'm always exhausted. I also struggle with phone addiction, my screentime easily goes above 12+ hours on days when I'm not working...

Day 1:

  • Took out trash.
  • Cooked for the first time in months. Nothing fancy, just mashed potatoes and frozen, pre-made meat I had to put in the oven to bake, but I'm very happy with it. I've been getting sick of ordering the same food or buying the same ready meals... Took me a few hours to finish, because I was procrastinating, but I did it.
  • Finally unloaded the washing machine after the washed clothes have been sitting in there for over a day.
  • Left the house for 2 days in a row. (went grocery shopping)
  • Took both AM and PM medicines.
  • Put my phone in a lockbox for 24 hours to fight my phone addiction.
  • Started a project I've been wanting to do for months, even years. Hopefully I can keep up with it.
  • Did something I've been procrastinating to do. Ordered the package my mom asked me to do like 2 weeks ago, and I lied to her about it... Finally actually ordered it.

I feel happy about day 1, and day 2 already looks promising. (:

Have a nice day everyone!

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u/mrsmendes — 15 days ago