How do you work full time without suffering?
I’m looking for advice, resources, grants, assistance programs, or any other tips from you all! Such as wellness services, financial help, jobs or companies that are supportive of hiring disabled folks
I have been struggling with Lupus and other secondary health issues for a while now and it’s become quite debilitating for me. My work situation definitely makes it worse but I feel that I can’t quit or leave because of the job market, price of living here, and medical bills I’m working to pay off. I work a second job that is mostly unpaid and other freelance gigs in hopes of securing a better career situation for myself but it’s tough to break into the creative industry overnight and do the type of work I’m hoping to do. Part of the problem is that having access to full time remote work is sweet for my situation, just not the work environment I’m currently dealing with.
I’m really at a loss. I’ve questioned moving from the city, going on disability leave, or finding a sugar daddy (though I would prefer not have to do any of those things). I love NYC and I don’t want to leave, it’s so awesome to have access to public transportation and walkability. I also would hate to do anything that could jeopardize financial stability long term.
I’m married so my partner does help with a significant amount of our financial burden but I wouldn’t be able to leave my job. This also limits the financial help I can access bc of their income, but with my debt, it really doesn’t extend that far.
I worry about being hospitalized again or needing surgery if I don’t show down and get the help I need or break free of this toxic work situation. Any and all advice would be appreciated.