u/margo39

Is it overreacting to ask the daycare worker not to lift infant’s legs/ankles too high when changing her diaper?

Our very sweet daycare teacher changed my 3.5 month old’s diaper when I was picking her up yesterday. She lifted her ankles way too high to the point even part of her upper back was off the table, putting strain on her neck. Baby was fine and not crying. Is it overreacting and crossing boundaries to request they change her without lifting the ankles too high? Should I suggest rolling her to the side or doing frog legs? I don’t want to ruin the relationship we have!

Side note- baby is already in physical therapy for torticollis and neck tension, and I do not want it to get worse.

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u/margo39 — 17 hours ago