AITA for posting a photo of myself that my friend's boyfriend apparently had a weird reaction to and now my friend is upset at me about it
I posted a photo on my instagram last weekend. nothing out of the ordinary, just me at a thing I went to, I looked good and I felt good and I posted it. I get maybe forty likes on a normal post so it is not like I have some massive platform.
two days later my friend texted me kind of coldly asking if we could talk. I said sure and she called me.
apparently her boyfriend had seen my post, made a comment to her about it that she found upsetting, and she had been stewing on it for two days before reaching out to me.
she said she felt like the photo was attention seeking and that I should have considered how it might land given that her boyfriend follows me and they had been having some issues lately.
I said I posted a photo of myself on my own account and I was not thinking about her boyfriend when I did it.
she said that was kind of the point, that I was not thinking about how my actions affect people around me, and that a good friend would be more considerate.
I told her I was not responsible for what her boyfriend said to her and that whatever issue came up between them because of my photo was between them.
she said I was being dismissive of her feelings and that she expected more from me.
AITA?