u/littleivoryowl

How did you make the decision to try again or not after losing your baby? I'm 35 and about 6 weeks from termination for T21. We already have 3 healthy children so I'm kind of leaning on not trying again-due to that and other reasons. He was supposed to be our last baby. I think my husband does want to. Either way I'm giving myself more time to grieve and focus on myself and our family for a bit but it is on my mind a lot. If we do decide to try again I'd rather try sooner than later but I'm scared. Has anyone had the random chance of T21 (not genetic) happen multiple times to them? The opposite and had a healthy baby after?