u/linuxuser16

Hey everyone, I’m an ESTP-T currently in a relationship with an ISTJ, and I’m trying to better understand your perspective on texting. I’ve noticed she tends to:

send short / to-the-point replies not text much throughout the day not really match energy (even when I’m more expressive)

From my side, I naturally:

send longer texts or voice memos try to keep conversation going sometimes overthink when replies feel dry or short and get anxiety from that

I’m not trying to change her, I just want to understand what it actually means from an ISTJ perspective.