Venting
I’m feeling a bit upset and used. I’ve baby sat for an amazing family the last year. I ended up charging less than I normally do for them out of essentially a desperate need of another side gig at this time last year, but it works out because one they are amazing and two I can get other work done on shift while their baby son is sleeping. I do not mind making less than my normal rate because I am truly so happy working with them. It’s a good fit.
They asked if I would like to do any sporadic babysitting for a friend of theirs this summer because their regular sitter is not around. I said I’m fine with taking on sporadic work.
I did a trial run with their son the other day and him and I really hit it off. At first the mom and dad said they would only need me for an hour or two. I think this was because the son normally doesn’t take well to people. I ended up getting stuck there for four full hours. Now I know I should’ve spoken up.
At the end of the shift, the Mom whispered the same rate that the other family pays me and was like $23 right?
I was so caught off guard because every other family asked me my rate instead of naming a price, and I give them the range that all depends on the job.
I’m left feeling upset and caught off guard, especially since I recently received an offer for $28 that I declined due it not feeling like the right fit.
This family lives in a million dollar home, I suppose I was expecting better…..
I ended up telling them I have about 3-5 hours availability a week… at this point I’m hoping it can just be a temporary one or two month gig before school starts again in August…
I essentially feel like a bargain sitter at this point when I have 15 years of experience and I am truly excellent at my job ensuring the safety and care of the babies I watch.