Over 100 pounds lost and over 6 years maintaining. Here’s my secret:
You guys.
….That’s right. r/loseit is my secret.
I learned everything I needed to start by reading the quickstart guide. I downloaded a calorie tracking app (in 2018, I used MFP I have since very happily switched to Macrofactor). I ordered a digital food scale and a digital (person) scale. I counted my calories and tried to go for walks.
After a few months, I switched from a lurker to a participant. I used the daily accountability challenges, and hung out in the weekly threads. I asked lots of questions in the daily Q&A. I read other people’s experiences, and learned how to set small goals for myself.
6 years later, I’m doing the same thing. Still hanging out in the weekly threads (albeit answering more questions than posing them!), still getting and giving support on relevant posts.
Lifestyle changes are possible, guys. My greatest wish is that everyone can be as successful as I have been. I was obese by 6 years old, and after a lifetime of obesity and failed interventions I truly thought that was just how my life was going to be: I had “fat genes” (or whatever) and that change wasn’t possible.
The me of 8 years ago lived a very different life than I do now. I am a MUCH better cook, and my palate has absolutely exploded. I save money for expensive sports clothing that I wouldn’t have been able to fit a single buttcheek in a decade ago. I make vacation plans around athletic challenges that I really want to do (next up: hiking in the alps!). I can go clothes shopping and come back with some nice pieces that really suit me.
I didn’t lose weight particularly fast, and I still track my calories and weigh myself. But, and I guess this is the big change, tracking my calories does not feel like a punishment. It feels like freedom: I know how to manage my intake to support my alp-hiking-aspirations. I like knowing how much I weigh. I like taking care of myself.
Anyway, the support I’ve gotten here is my big secret. The cat is entirely out of the bag. I hope it becomes your secret too :)