What Is Considered As "Blunt" To Your Type?
So, I was out with my Ex-Girlfriend (we're still amicable friends) last night and my arm was smacked several times, and I was given the middle finger maybe four times by her and at one point she said something like "If you weren't so cute I'd kick your @$$", or something. There were these ladies at nearby tables who witnessed the 'abuse' (lol) as well.
Mind you I'm just talking in my normal way/tone. But I've noticed that when I'm just being my honest/true self and I utter more than five words at a time people tend to have an unexpected (to me, but maybe obvious to others) and visceral reaction to what I'm saying.
What are some kinds of things that make your type (or you personally) perceive words to be blunt? I want to see if I'm actually in the wrong or are people socially conditioned to be triggered by certain utterances.
Thanks for the replies in advance.