u/karmokarmo

I was her caretaker for over ten years, when she died I was in shook because I haven't seen her without her nasal tubes in years , she seemed at peace... she was only 60 and I am in my twenties, don't know what to do now. She was my main focus for years it was only us... she wanted to live more , she was doing progress between hospitalizations. but one night her oxigen went to 30 and she had lots of CO2 in her brain and she said do not revive in her medical records and they didn't want to do evasive stuff on her , I understand now...she was in alot of pain.

I'll keep lurking around seeing if I can help people. But this illness is bullshit, she went downhill in a week , she was doing fine at home 🏠.

Best wishes