▲ 36 r/TopSurgery
Hi. I've never really used Reddit, but here goes nothing. I'm Non-Binary, came out last year after living as a lesbian for over 15 years. I've always wanted Top Surgery. Always. I can't remember a time I didn't. I finally pulled the trigger an scheduled it for August of this year. Details below.
I'm so excited I can't stand it, but I'm also beyond terrified. As long as I can remember, I've been a work in progress. There was always something about myself that I felt I needed to "fix" unfortunately. Lose weight, be more confident, get a better job, go back to school, etc. I've been in therapy for years working on loving myself. I think my fear here is that what if after I spend the money and have the surgery and heal, I still don't feel whole? What if I just move on to the next thing? I can't keep living my life like this! I have to learn how to be happy finally and I think/hope top surgery will help me to do that. Any advice/thoughts/words of support are appreciated. Thanks!
u/justme3788 — 18 hours ago