My son has cerebral palsy and some other disabilities. He uses a g/j tube for all feeding and has vision impairment. We still find ways to do activities and we share the way we have fun together. We shared here the other day. My son and I hope you find some inspiration to do fun things that include an extra hand (over hand).
When things seem hardest just remember the good days and all things you have accomplished so far. It’s not easy for things to get easier but eventually, one day you realize you’re stronger and things aren’t so heavy.
Good luck!