u/jmdotor_smth

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(this is my other account btw lol)

I'm back from a pahinga on the dating scene and...

hello! I'm looking for a long-term relationship... but here are some notes about me:

nasa sa'kin kasi is that i don't want to lose my alone time while going out with someone so if possible low maintenance lang but we still have a connection together

if possible naglalaro ng league kasi I GENUINELY WANT A KADUO or Overcooked 2!

any age pooo haha lowk i like being the bunso in the relationship (bunso rin kasi ako e)

LDR munaaa, I'll be moving to manila very soon!

mejo conyo and mejo maingay

mahilig sa voice call!! video calls, not so much, but if kaya naman, g!

okay for physical attributes hmmm...

i'm 5'4!

slim bod but nagpapataba me kasi mag-ggym na next year!

wears glasses

moreno

b for compatibility (tho tbh this is negotiable for versas)

decent facecard naman :))

likes persona, overcooked, league, expedition 33!

about uu!!:

any age is fine!!

pref Filipino (negotiable)

5'6 above (non-negotiable, sorry)

has a pleasing personality (job interview yarn?)

also plays games (negotiable)

and pls can carry a conversation

see ya on dms!

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u/jmdotor_smth — 7 days ago

Hello. M18 here, binigyan ako ng pera ng pinsan ko last April 29 dahil birthday ko. Isang libo 'yon. Malaking halaga 'yon para sa'kin especially since kapag gagala ako or what is hindi ako binibigyan ng pera ng magulang ko.

Now, very recently—just moments ago—hiningi 'yon ng tatay at nanay ko. Uutangin daw nila, ibabalik nila. Sabi nila 'yong buong 1k ang hihingiin. The reason is dahil wala na silang cash on-hand.

Nang tanungin nila ako, biglang nagbago mukha ko. Hinihingi na 'yong 1k. Dahil ayoko na lumaki ang 'gulo', sinabihan ko na lang na kunin 'yong 1k sa wallet ko. Pumayag na lang ako, pero halatang-halata na ayaw-na-ayaw kong ibigay 'yong pera. Iba ang tono, iba ang mukha.

For further context, umiinom 'yong tatay ko, kasama mga tropa niya. Today, May 1, birthday niya. Celebration naman, kahit konti. Ayun, nagpainom siya. Wala naman sana akong problemang magpahiram o magbigay sa magulang ko. Okay lang. Pero alam ko kung saan 'to patungo, ipambibili lang nila ng alak. I guess for celebration.

For extra, added context, my family is very sensitive sa mga ganitong ugali: 'yong 'madamot' sa pera. My mom and dad always complains about my other cousins' treatment sa kanilang nanay at tatay when it comes to money, na kumbaga 'madamot' daw sila, and whatnot (looking at it now, oo naman talaga—my situation is not comparable to their situation naman). This is the reason why I'm making this post. Nag-ooverthink ako.

For bonus context (sorry, lol), my sister also gives pera to us. Isa siya sa mga bumubuhay sa amin—alongside my father—and I fear na ikkwento nila 'to sa kaniya and ako pa ang mat-treat as a villain dahil 'napakadamot' kong tao.

So heto na 'yong moral dilemma: ABYG kung gano'n 'yong naging reaction ko sa paghingi ng pera ng nanay at tatay ko kahit pa man 'reassured' ako na mababalik sa'kin 'yong pera?

Salamat sa makasasagot.

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u/jmdotor_smth — 14 days ago

i passed diliman (can't believe it) and yeah. I'm just curious, ano bang UPG anv kailangan para sa campus na 'yon? hindi kasi ako makapaniwala eh.

passed ba creative writing btw

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u/jmdotor_smth — 19 days ago