u/i_eat_curtains

Is it just me or people don’t really want to engage anymore?

I’ve been noticing something weird across different platforms lately.

It’s not that people aren’t interested. They watch, scroll, consume… but when it comes to actually engaging, replying, or participating, almost nothing happens.

Even in communities that should be active, it feels like everything depends on a small group, and the rest just stay passive.

At this point it doesn’t even feel like an engagement problem, more like people just don’t want to interact at all anymore.

Curious if others are seeing the same thing, or if you’ve found ways to get people to actually participate without forcing it.

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u/i_eat_curtains — 2 days ago

Why does social media somehow feel both overcrowded and lonely at the same time?

There are more people posting than ever, more content than ever, and everyone is constantly online… but somehow interactions still feel less genuine compared to how they used to.

A lot of content gets attention now, but not always actual conversation.

Do you think social media has changed the way people connect online, or is this just nostalgia talking?

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u/i_eat_curtains — 4 days ago

Social media is destroying everything of value

Be it parenting, relationships, career or happiness. You will find a set narrative in everything. Your parents aren't good enough, or your relationship isn't perfect, or careers don't pay enough or how you are "supposed" to live. Usually people come to the internet thinking they will be happier when they log off, but instead it makes them miserable. There was a time when people had lesser complaints and more full fillness in life. Till 2018 i remember, The internet used to be cat memes and educational information . But now its how world is fucked up, useless complaints or mocking opinions about opinions and then reaction videos on that , misery all over the place.

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u/i_eat_curtains — 4 days ago

Is it just me or people don’t really want to engage anymore?

I’ve been noticing something weird across different platforms lately.

It’s not that people aren’t interested. They watch, scroll, consume… but when it comes to actually engaging, replying, or participating, almost nothing happens.

Even in communities that should be active, it feels like everything depends on a small group, and the rest just stay passive.

At this point it doesn’t even feel like an engagement problem, more like people just don’t want to interact at all anymore.

Curious if others are seeing the same thing, or if you’ve found ways to get people to actually participate without forcing it.

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u/i_eat_curtains — 5 days ago
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Has social media ever made a real-life interaction feel weird for you?

Like when you’ve followed someone online for a long time, seen their posts, liked their stories, maybe even replied a few times… and then suddenly you see them in real life and have no idea whether to act like you know each other or not 😭

Social media has created this strange middle ground where people can feel familiar without ever actually meeting.

Has this ever happened to you?

u/CitiesXXLfreekey — 5 days ago
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Do you think AI is helping social media… or slowly making it feel less real?

Lately it feels like AI-generated content is everywhere captions, videos, edits, thumbnails, even entire accounts. Sometimes it’s impressive, but other times everything starts feeling kind of repetitive and emotionless.

At the same time, a lot of creators are using AI because it genuinely saves time and helps them keep up with how fast content moves now.

So where do you stand on it?

Do you think people will eventually start valuing more raw and human content again, or is AI just becoming a normal part of how content is made now?

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u/i_eat_curtains — 6 days ago

What’s one thing about social media growth that nobody tells beginners early enough?

Could be about algorithms, consistency, burnout, engagement, content quality, or even how long growth actually takes.

A lot of advice online makes everything sound simple, but once you start creating consistently, you realize there’s a lot people don’t talk about.

Curious to hear what lessons or realizations surprised you the most after spending time building on social media.

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u/i_eat_curtains — 7 days ago
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Does anyone else feel like social media is way harder to grow on now than it used to be?

A few years ago, it felt like good content had a real chance to take off. Now it feels like you can spend hours making something solid… and it barely reaches anyone.

There’s more competition, shorter attention spans, constant algorithm changes, and honestly sometimes it just feels random.

For people who’ve been creating content for a while, what’s the biggest change you’ve noticed?

Do you think growth today comes more from consistency, better content, understanding the algorithm, or just adapting quickly before trends die out?

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u/i_eat_curtains — 7 days ago

Why does posting on Instagram sometimes feel like this? 😭

You spend time editing, thinking of a caption, choosing the perfect photo… and then suddenly posting it feels way more stressful than it should.

Does anyone else overthink posting sometimes, or is it just part of being online now?

u/i_eat_curtains — 7 days ago

What’s a social media rebrand or update people still refuse to accept?

Some changes just never fully stick no matter how much platforms push them 😭

Twitter becoming “X” is probably the biggest example, but there are definitely others.

What’s one platform change, rebrand, or update you still ignore, dislike, or refuse to get used to?

u/i_eat_curtains — 8 days ago