Should I move my senior cat abroad? Mother said to euthanize...
Hiya, I currently live in the UK and my 12 year old senior cat is in the US. My parent said they can no longer care for him due to his worsening urinary issues which may need further testing, and thinks I should say goodbye and euthanise him. I am trying to figure out the best solution, but there are a lot of factors into this decision.
About Beans
* Species: Feline Cat
* Age: 12
* Sex/Neuter status: neutered
* Breed: Tuxedo Domestic Short Hair. He is a polydactyl and has an extra toe on each limb.
* Body weight: 12.03
* History:
Beans was rehomed at age 8 and has had spraying issues since early adoption. Previously, he seemed to have a substrate preference and liked peeing on the installed carpet. After blocking his access, he started to spray on the walls. This has been managed for years with pee pads. He used to only spray occasionally, but now it has been getting worse and he only uses the litter box for pooping.
When the urinary issues were discovered, we tried prozac for him but his urinary issues did not change. He seemed more aloof and less cuddly, so we took him off of it. I think he was only on the medication for 8 weeks. We also tried the Feliway plugin, different litters and litter boxes, but just learned to manage this with pee pads taped to the wall. It's worked much better with this method!
I am Beans' mom and I moved away in September to attend grad school in the UK. My mother offered to take care of Beans while I am away. I recently got a job here and plan to stay here for a few years. She no longer can take care of him, thinks he is ill, and believes we should put him down.
Beans is an indoor outdoor cat, much to my dismay. My parents indulged him and he loves to be outside. He is does not chase or really interact with any creatures out there: he mainly lays somewhere and vibes. If I bring him to the UK, he will have significantly less outdoor time and I worry for his happiness. I also worry for his current mental health at my parents since they refuse to play with him. He uses his scratching post, but the only toys he likes are hairties and yarn, which are always supervised. He hasn't been played with in months.
Apparently his urinary issues are getting worse. In addition, he has been vomiting a bit more and our vet recommended further testing. I am trying to find a solution, and am unsure what to do. Any recommendations or advice would be endlessly appreciated.
* Clinical signs: inappropriate urination, restlessness, vomiting about once a week.
* Duration: 3 months