blaming her parents is victim blaming
anyone who blames her parents for this is sick and doesn’t know how grooming works. “they should’ve watched her better” A GROWN ASS MAN SHOULDNT HAVE ENCOURAGED AN 11-14 YEAR OLD TO SNEAK OUT OF HER PARENTS HOUSE. they took her phone to limit access to talking to him and he PAID ANOTHER CHILD to give her another phone. so he already had access to another child or he waited outside the MIDDLESCHOOL to find one? society is so hell bent on taking responsibility away from the man. we’re they supposed to move? switch her schools? all so again, a GROWN. FUCKING. MAN. wouldn’t know where she is or how to contact her?????
we have been so groomed as a society to accept the existence of evil violent men that when they act on tendencies we should have expected it. if you blame the parents you are no better than people who ask “well what were you wearing when you were assaulted”. tuh