I get given a list of leads every month to contact from my gym- I haven’t found much success in contacting leads at all, and I’m curious what other trainers do.
I’ve managed to build a pretty steady client base without contacting leads very often any more, but I know there’s always room for improvement.
If you regularly contact leads- what approach have you found to be successful?
Thanks.
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and I do most of the cooking.
Usually he we go halves on the groceries and I will cook for us. I’ve also started meal prepping for us recently because we are both trying to lose weight.
I thought everything was going well. We’ve run in to problems in the past where he asked me not to cook for him anymore and just cook for myself, because he feels I create unnecessary dishes- fair enough. So i adapted and made less dishes so that it would be easy for him to clean afterwards.
I’ve been cooking most meals on top of busy work and yesterday he couldn’t be bothered doing the dishes so told me to leave them and he’ll do them the next day.
I ended up doing them anyway, because I have the day off today, and I told him that I don’t mind cooking our meals but paying half of everything on top of cooking and cleaning is a bit much for me.
He told me that we should cook our own meals because sometimes he can’t be bothered doing the dishes and that he wanted to lose weight anyway so it’ll be easier for us to do our own thing. This isn’t the first time he’s suggested it, and it hurt me a little because I’ve been doing so much for us and the meals I was cooking were very healthy.
He’s been single most of his life and I think he’s very used to the bachelor lifestyle and I’ve become upset because I want to work as a team and start building a life together.
I know I may be being a bit emotional right now, and over reacting but it’s just how I feel. So I’m taking to reddit to get advice on if I’m over reacting or not.
In my eyes, I take care of most of things and ask for a small return eg. doing a few dishes at the end but it turns in to a massive discussion about just doing things separately. It’s not really what I want in a relationship especially because we’ve spoken recently about having kids and if we can’t be a team right now without kids, how can we be a team with kids?
Again, maybe I’m over reacting.. Any advice is appreciated.
EDIT - The reason I did them myself today even though he said he would do them is because I’ve left them before when he said he was going to do them and they would still be there after 2 days so I end up doing them myself.
This has happened multiple times. I dont mind him leaving them overnight, I mind him just leaving them there full stop.