u/gummyillus

I don’t mind having a loving cat, but our cat just turned 10 months old, and suddenly he’s become very clingy. He refuses to be around anyone else and gets bored easily when it’s not me playing with him. I don’t remember the last time I had privacy he even tries to break into my bathroom when I’m in it, wants to eat everything I do, and wants to be held on my shoulders for hours. His head pops up everywhere I go, and honestly, it’s become overwhelming 😭. I’m an introvert and nd, so that amount of attention is tiring. I don’t know how to manage it because I need a lot of time alone, and I don’t think this level of attachment is healthy either. This is our first cat, and I’d love some help with this.

This is my first time getting microneedling, an RF one to be exact. The pain was 7/10, but it hurt a bit around the mustache, chin, and jaw.

Immediately after the procedure my face was red, 2-4hours later the redness became more subtle, I looked yellow somehow for the night.

The day after, I woke up to notice those grid marks on my chin, jaw, and a bit under it. Exactly the areas that caused me a bit more pain compared to the others. Are those okay? They sometimes itch, they're not that dramatic, but if you notice them you can't distract your eyes from them anymore.

BUT the redness is almost gone! And my family sees an improvement with my scars, so far a good experience despite my being years old knowing people are warning others not to use it on the face.. I still have 2 sessions left, 1 each month. Should I continue…idk

I know my question might be silly, but this is my first time letting someone touch my face with a needle, or ever getting something to make myself look better mostly because I low-key gave up on myself until 2026.