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22F. PLEASE HELP ME OUT. KINDLY READ THE WHOLE THING! I strongly feel that i am affected by someone’s really bad energy. I suspect that it is a friend of mine. So basically there is this ‘friend’ of mine who gives off very suspicious vibes. She thinks she’s the best and basically obsessed with herself. She speaks highly of herself and makes it seem as if everyone adores her and people are cheating on their girlfriends to be with her etc and she takes pride in it. This is how she feeds her subconscious i guess. She has been in an on and off relationship for 3.5 years now and her boyfriend is one of the biggest cheaters in the world. He just doesn’t care about anyone and is the most perverted guy i have known. He used to cheat on her frequently and she kept begging him. She’s very obsessed with this guy. I used to be the one to support and help her in difficult times. Now I don’t because the energy drain is real and it has made me realise that I should protect my energy around her.

She sometimes used to say things like ‘agar mai uspe koi black magic kardu ki wo mere control me aa jaye to sab sahi ho jayega’; ‘kaise bhi karke mai isko control karna chahti hu ye mere paas se jaye na’. All this continued till her boyfriend’s birthday in 2025, that is, 14th January. That day she suddenly called me to say that everything is fine now between both of them and he is fine now etc. I asked her what happened and she replied that she lit a diya at the barham baba mandir which is there in my city and wished for him to either be back to her completely or be away from her forever. I was a bit shocked because I haven’t seen prayers working that swiftly. But I didn’t bother much.

Now I had been in a relationship with a boy since 2022 who is her boyfriend’s friend. My relationship started getting downhill since then. My boyfriend came to meet me in feb 2025 but he seemed a bit changed as if he’s going away from me. I tried talking to him many a times to fill the communication gap etc but he always avoided me saying that he’s busy and i trusted him. He always used to say that no matter what he’s there and I don’t need to go anywhere etc but his tone changed suddenly. This year in march i got to know that he’s with someone else since may 2025 and his behaviour towards me completely changed. Seemed as if he doesn’t know me or doesn’t care about me anymore. He had stopped coming to meet me and i kept thinking that he is busy. All this started happening since that girl’s relationship miraculously healed. No matter how hard i tried things just got worse and worse untill he turned into someone that I didn’t know. He seemed to be distant from me but i always thought that god will heal our relationship.

The last time i met him was october 2025 when i had to give him his birthday gift and we even went to a temple but it was a bit late for us but we managed to do darshan etc and then he left. I was crying but he didn’t care. It was giving a very sus vibe but i ignored. I thought god was with me but now when i connect dots it gets weird. I really want to get rid of this. It is even affecting my career. My parents are worried because of my deteriorating mental health. They don’t know about my relationship but still, it is affecting me. Whichever exams i was supposed to give this year for PG entrance somehow situations suddenly changed that I couldn’t appear for those papers. I consulted a pandit ji he said it is evil eye. My mom tried to remove it but the red chillies and whatever things there were they did not burn. After that i tried 2-3 times. It was successful to some extent but my symptoms still don’t seem to go away.

I can’t do anything about the relationship now but i want to protect my career and i am very much under confident right now. I have heard that black magic removal takes a lot of time. But i have a paper on 10th. I don’t want any bad energy to affect me. All of this has taken me away from puja as well. I somehow can’t manage to do my rituals that i used to. But i still light diya in the evening everyday. I fail to understand what is going on. Please help me out. Suggest me a way by which i can get rid of this quickly so that this doesn’t affect my exam and confidence. I’m very scared. Due to this I can’t even focus on studying. My mind is filled with doubts.

I am a but hesitant to do quick remedies also because i have heard that if i get rid of this then the negative energies will go back to the sender and will harm her. Although i doubt her but her situation will get worse and i am worried but i am also thinking that why should i bother when she didn’t think twice? And if her happiness is built over my destruction then that is wrong. I can’t let this happen. Am i wrong in thinking like that? Please help me out.

PLEASE HELP ME OUT. KINDLY READ THE WHOLE THING! I strongly feel that i am affected by someone’s really bad energy. I suspect that it is a friend of mine. So basically there is this ‘friend’ of mine who gives off very suspicious vibes. She thinks she’s the best and basically obsessed with herself. She speaks highly of herself and makes it seem as if everyone adores her and people are cheating on their girlfriends to be with her etc and she takes pride in it. This is how she feeds her subconscious i guess. She has been in an on and off relationship for 3.5 years now and her boyfriend is one of the biggest cheaters in the world. He just doesn’t care about anyone and is the most perverted guy i have known. He used to cheat on her frequently and she kept begging him. She’s very obsessed with this guy. I used to be the one to support and help her in difficult times. Now I don’t because the energy drain is real and it has made me realise that I should protect my energy around her.

She sometimes used to say things like ‘agar mai uspe koi black magic kardu ki wo mere control me aa jaye to sab sahi ho jayega’; ‘kaise bhi karke mai isko control karna chahti hu ye mere paas se jaye na’. All this continued till her boyfriend’s birthday in 2025, that is, 14th January. That day she suddenly called me to say that everything is fine now between both of them and he is fine now etc. I asked her what happened and she replied that she lit a diya at the barham baba mandir which is there in my city and wished for him to either be back to her completely or be away from her forever. I was a bit shocked because I haven’t seen prayers working that swiftly. But I didn’t bother much.

Now I had been in a relationship with a boy since 2022 who is her boyfriend’s friend. My relationship started getting downhill since then. My boyfriend came to meet me in feb 2025 but he seemed a bit changed as if he’s going away from me. I tried talking to him many a times to fill the communication gap etc but he always avoided me saying that he’s busy and i trusted him. He always used to say that no matter what he’s there and I don’t need to go anywhere etc but his tone changed suddenly. This year in march i got to know that he’s with someone else since may 2025 and his behaviour towards me completely changed. Seemed as if he doesn’t know me or doesn’t care about me anymore. He had stopped coming to meet me and i kept thinking that he is busy. All this started happening since that girl’s relationship miraculously healed. No matter how hard i tried things just got worse and worse untill he turned into someone that I didn’t know. He seemed to be distant from me but i always thought that god will heal our relationship.

The last time i met him was october 2025 when i had to give him his birthday gift and we even went to a temple but it was a bit late for us but we managed to do darshan etc and then he left. I was crying but he didn’t care. It was giving a very sus vibe but i ignored. I thought god was with me but now when i connect dots it gets weird. I really want to get rid of this. It is even affecting my career. My parents are worried because of my deteriorating mental health. They don’t know about my relationship but still, it is affecting me. Whichever exams i was supposed to give this year for PG entrance somehow situations suddenly changed that I couldn’t appear for those papers. I consulted a pandit ji he said it is evil eye. My mom tried to remove it but the red chillies and whatever things there were they did not burn. After that i tried 2-3 times. It was successful to some extent but my symptoms still don’t seem to go away.

I can’t do anything about the relationship now but i want to protect my career and i am very much under confident right now. I have heard that black magic removal takes a lot of time. But i have a paper on 10th. I don’t want any bad energy to affect me. All of this has taken me away from puja as well. I somehow can’t manage to do my rituals that i used to. But i still light diya in the evening everyday. I fail to understand what is going on. Please help me out. Suggest me a way by which i can get rid of this quickly so that this doesn’t affect my exam and confidence. I’m very scared. Due to this I can’t even focus on studying. My mind is filled with doubts.

I am a but hesitant to do quick remedies also because i have heard that if i get rid of this then the negative energies will go back to the sender and will harm her. Although i doubt her but her situation will get worse and i am worried but i am also thinking that why should i bother when she didn’t think twice? And if her happiness is built over my destruction then that is wrong. I can’t let this happen. Am i wrong in thinking like that? Please help me out.

Anyone here filling form for Sikkim NLU 3 year LLB?

As an appearing candidate whose graduation marks are yet to be announced, what do i write in the section of obtained graduation marks?

I called in the university, they gave me another phone number to contact on but there was no response to the call i made. If anyone has filled the form, please help.

As an appearing candidate whose graduation marks are yet to be announced, what do i write in the section of obtained graduation marks?

I called in the university, they gave me another phone number to contact on but there was no response to the call i made. If anyone has filled the form, please help.

I feel like someone has put a really bad evil eye on me.

I randomly start feeling heavy and lazy. I want to do a lot of things but my body is somehow stuck in the same space. I am not able to get out of my bed for hours even if i am awake. Also not even a single thing is working out for me. The forms that i am filling are either overlapping with UG sem exams or are getting cancelled due to some or the other thing. I am at a stage of giving up. I will end up harming myself it seems. It is getting too heavy. Been stuck here for 4 years now and my parents are taking me way too lightly. It is a joke to them. They keep on saying that it will work out but i am losing hopes and that is where i know that something is wrong with me because usually I’m the last person to give up. I’m losing my abilities and i am scared. If there is any way out of this please tell me. Please guide me on how to get rid of whatever this is. Please help.

I randomly start feeling heavy and lazy. I want to do a lot of things but my body is somehow stuck in the same space. I am not able to get out of my bed for hours even if i am awake. Also not even a single thing is working out for me. The forms that i am filling are either overlapping with UG sem exams or are getting cancelled due to some or the other thing. I am at a stage of giving up. I will end up harming myself it seems. It is getting too heavy. Been stuck here for 4 years now and my parents are taking me way too lightly. It is a joke to them. They keep on saying that it will work out but i am losing hopes and that is where i know that something is wrong with me because usually I’m the last person to give up. I’m losing my abilities and i am scared. If there is any way out of this please tell me. Please guide me on how to get rid of whatever this is. Please help.

Past few months have been terrible for me. I lost faith in Maa Durga in process and I am so guilty that I did. But I was failing terribly in whatever I was trying. My career and studies got badly affected due to a person who destroyed me completely. I lost 4 years of my life, made bad decisions regarding studies and I still regret that decision. Good thing that I came out of the havoc that was in my life but I am really finding it difficult to come out of it. 1 thing I have hated the most in my life is self pity and crying over stuff for a very long time. But I have been into a loop of all of these things. Also the efforts that I’ve been trying to make to bring my life on track are going waste. I couldn’t give an entrance test that I wished to do. Another one that i had to give is falling on the same day as my sem exam. Whatever i am thinking is just not working out and i find it difficult to trust Maa but i am also feeling guilty of leaving her.

I can’t stay like this. I have to get out of this space. And i am tired of this. I know i have been at fault too. I feel my soul is ready to work on everything but my body and mind aren’t supporting me at all. Also my sade sati started last year. Maybe that is why. Idk. I’m hopeless and tired. I want to hold maa. I feel she is angry at me that is why everything is getting messy. Also i feel i have been carrying a lot of negative energy around me. How do i remove that? Kindly guide. Thank you.