u/fr33sample

My SO and I (31F and 38M)have been putting off getting married for a long time, we have two kids together and my brother is in the Navy and he's my only family member and ive wanted him to give me away. He is visiting in a few weeks and our pastor can marry us at our church.

I just want to do a short ceremony and then we'll go out to eat. Can anyone help me come up with what all is needed?

I'll just buy a cheaper dress and he'll probably rent a tux. His sister will help me with hair makeup and photos.

Wanting to keep is super simple but if there are any fast inexpensive ways of making it nicer, any tips or ideas are appreciated!!!