u/erinbear90

I got married this past Saturday and I am overcome with regret. We had no wedding planner and our venue was very much a “do it yourself” type of venue. I think what most surprised me was how much would not get done as far as what I envisioned for our wedding day. If I had to put a percentage to it, I would say maybe 60% was what I envisioned. We paid for a photo booth and printer that didn’t even get set up, bought a bunch of cute decor for the bar that didn’t get used, and also had some custom cocktail napkins with our dogs faces that never got taken out of the box. In addition to that, I was an hour late to my own wedding ceremony and I am absolutely mortified by that, even though most of it was out of my control anyway. Is this a normal feeling for some brides? Just general regret in the days after your wedding? I’ve always heard the whole “My wedding day was one of the best days of my life” and I’m not feeling that way even a little. Certainly don’t regret marrying my husband but the wedding? If I could do it all over, I wouldn’t.