Can single mums do it??
i recently found out im pregnant. im 20 years old and live on my own. the babies father, already has a 2year old and lives with his ex girlfriend co parenting, or at least thats what he says. He is 19 years old. We havent been seeing eachother for very long, about 80 days. And at the start we really meshed with eachother and understood eachother and i felt really safe within his company. He talked about financial struggles, and problems that he had which i was happy to always listen too. I really enjoyed all the time me and him spent together and i felt like me and him really got along. Previously, before i found out i was pregnant we had a conversation about a previous abortion that i had which was the most traumatic thing i have ever experienced and i told him i would never go through with it again. I then found out i was pregnant about 2 weeks ago, i told him and he isnt best pleased, he keeps saying things like ‘i dont want this for myself’ and ‘i cant keep running around for other people’ but my life is also changing drastically. I dont want to go through with another termination as it was an all time low for me. But i just feel like he isn’t going to be there or help in anyway way possible. His messages have gone blunt, and he just doesn’t seem interested in wanting to talk to me anymore, im trying to put the effort it, but he never even asks me if im okay or how im feeling, when i make sure to always ask him how he is doing. Im just finishing my Level 4, and im supposed to be going to uni in September, and i dont want to give up my career, i feel like I cant do it on my own, but i really would regret not keeping the baby.