My company is calling me back to office. I'd rather stay home, cut my expenses, and build my startup. Should I quit or go back?
Need some honest opinions because I've been going back and forth on this for weeks and can't decide on my own.
Here's the situation.
I've been working from home since I joined my company. WFH lets me live with my parents in a smaller city. My expenses are minimal. No rent. No Swiggy. No commute costs.
Food is taken care of. Whatever I earn, most of it goes into savings and into building my own thing on the side.
The side thing is VerifiedMRR, a private revenue verification tool for Indian SaaS founders using Razorpay OAuth. I'm an approved Razorpay technology partner. I built it solo. It's live, it's free for founders, and I've been pouring nights and weekends into it for the last few months.
It's the most real thing I've ever built.
Last week my manager called and said WFH is ending. I need to come back to office. Full time. Company rules.
The office is in a different city. Moving there means I pay rent. I pay for food. I commute. My savings drop. My family time drops. And most importantly, my bandwidth for building verifiedmrr drops from "nights and weekends" to "whatever energy I have left after commuting and office politics," which for most people is nothing.
I told my manager I didn't see the point of going in. He said it's mandatory.
So now I'm stuck.
Option 1: Go back to office. Keep the stable job. Accept that verifiedmrr becomes a weekend hobby that slowly dies.
Option 2: Quit. Stay with my parents. Focus fully on verifiedmrr for 6-12 months. Risk running out of runway before the product finds users.
Option 3: Go back, try to push through the exhaustion, hope I can still build on the side.
I'm not going to lie, I'm leaning toward option 2. Staying home is the unfair advantage I have.
No rent, no dependents, no overhead. A lot of founders would kill for this runway situation. Going back to office feels like trading the best setup I'll ever have for a salary that doesn't even give me freedom to build.
But I also know that "quit your job for your startup" is advice that works for the people who make it and destroys the people who don't. And I have zero paying users right now. Not low. Zero.
So I want to ask people here who've been through this. When is the right time to quit? Is it when you have MRR? When you have runway? When the gap between job and startup becomes unbearable? Or is "quit now" just the exciting answer that feels good in the moment and ruins you in six months?
Also asking this because I genuinely don't have anyone in my life who has done this. My parents don't fully understand what I'm building. My friends have jobs. Reddit is the closest thing I have to a room full of people who've actually faced this decision.
Any honest take is welcome. Especially if it's "don't quit, you're not ready yet." That's the answer I need to hear if it's true.
And if you're curious what I've been pouring my savings and my weekends into, it's VerifiedMRR. That's the dream I'm trying to decide whether to protect.