I broke up with my girl over emotional cheating. She is adamant on making things right and trying again.
Hello everyone. I just broke up with my girl yesterday. We were only dating for 3 months when I started finding out she was talking to her ex. When I first brought it up we almost broke up. She stayed calling me insecure. I set a boundary and told her if I caught her doing it again I’d leave her. Fast forward two weeks, and I come to find out she has an alternate Snapchat account and was texting him the day after I set the boundary. When I was trying to leave after telling her it’s over, she offered to let me see the messages for “closure”. In these messages she’s laughing at the possibility of me leaving with a chump of an ex she has, telling him “i don’t want to leave solely because of what he can bring to my future” or stuff along the lines of “DOBBY IS FREE” after I tried to leave the first time.
She’s adamant on trying to make things work but I don’t know if I can trust her. She’s saying all the right things now and is showing me actual emotion for the first time in weeks, but I can’t even trust her tears at this point. The only reason I take her semi-seriously is because she didn’t cheat physically. What do I do?