Situationship advice
I woke up this morning absolutely overwhelmed by my emotions and need some advice. The pictures are from my reading this morning, I understood the reading fine I just thought it relevant to include. I don’t have anyone else to talk to about this so I hope it’s okay to post this here.
So for background have been living with my now situationship since late 2022, he offered me an escape from my abusive family and although I was hesitant I agreed since my other options were homelessness or suicide. I’ve been struggling a lot lately when reflecting on our situation because I still love him as a friend but I’m ready to move on with my life. I’m tired of living with him and his family and anytime I bring up moving it’s excuses. He has only had 1 job since I’ve known him so i was the money maker and was never able to save money. Because of my background with my family I’m terrified to tell him I want to be financially independent from him, although I never really agreed to it in the first place it kinda just happened. He has this sort of mindset that everything will work out for him effortlessly and while I’m glad he can allow himself to live so carefree I’m ready to move on with my life, I’m tired of waiting around.I can’t move just yet because I’ve been struggling to work, so I don’t have anything saved up and I have gone no contact with my entire family. I just got a job that is understanding of my mental health and autism and pays enough for me to support myself. All my cards lately have been telling me to focus on myself, and I guess I just really need some advice on how to go about this. I’ve never been very good at advocating for myself or dealing with confrontations but like I said I’m tired of waiting around I need to start living my life. Any advice helps ❤️
