u/crispynuggets_8

Me and this Virgo man have this unspoken tension between us. We communicate non verbally and pick up on each others non verbal cues. He’s pretty consistent, however there’s days hell pull back so I follow his lead and stay to myself. It’s confusing at times so there’s moments I think it’s all in my head and will completely put the focus on me. When I do that he goes out of his way to bother me. He’ll be extra talkative with other females, he’ll laugh a little extra at something that isn’t even funny and won’t talk to me at all and will become extremely nit picky about the things I’m doing. He’ll make comments he knows will trigger a jealousy response so I just play it off like I didn’t notice… it’s like he wants to hurt my feelings.. the other day i told him I don’t want to argue I care about you and just bear hugged him and held him in the hug and he was fine right after.. but Why is this??? I’m at the point where I’m turned off by his behavior and starting to lose. interest. On a good day he’s such a gentleman and takes care of me which is what attracted me to him. I just don’t feel like it’s my place to pursue a man. So I follow what he does.

Me and this Virgo man have this unspoken tension between us. We communicate non verbally and pick up on each others non verbal cues. He’s pretty consistent, however there’s days hell pull back so I follow his lead and stay to myself. It’s confusing at times so there’s moments I think it’s all in my head and will completely put the focus on me. When I do that he goes out of his way to bother me. He’ll be extra talkative with other females, he’ll laugh a little extra at something that isn’t even funny and won’t talk to me at all and will become extremely nit picky about the things I’m doing. He’ll make comments he knows will trigger a jealousy response so I just play it off like I didn’t notice… it’s like he wants to hurt my feelings.. the other day i told him I don’t want to argue I care about you and just bear hugged him and held him in the hug and he was fine right after.. but Why is this??? I’m at the point where I’m turned off by his behavior and starting to lose. interest. On a good day he’s such a gentleman and takes care of me which is what attracted me to him. I just don’t feel like it’s my place to pursue a man. So I follow what he does.

We work together. It’s a small family business so there’s no HR. The boss already knows we don’t get along and it’s a small place so there’s really no getting around staying away from her. Ever since I started she’d do weird things like I was wearing perfume and she walked past me mumbling under her breathe it smells like shit. I went up to her and asked her if that’s what she said because if my perfume was bothering her I wouldn’t wear it because I know people can be sensitive and she’s so “oh no I didn’t say that”… another time I had orders in my hand and she stuck her foot out an I tripped over her foot.. I was walking behind her and she was bent over and mumbled “dumb bitch” and I just stood henind her and she looked back and said “I’m talking to myself”… i enjoy my job, im happy with with my benefits, its close to home and I don’t want to leave solely because of her but I don’t know how to handle it… i talked to my family that’s very Christian and they’ll tell me to kill her with kindness because she’s obviously has something going on inside and projecting it on to me. I’m having a hard time wanting to be kind. They think it could change her heart by showing her how to be. Also there’s no directly talking to her because the few times I have she makes some sort of excuse.. instead of just admitting she doesn’t like me and respectfully staying away.

We work together. It’s a small family business so there’s no HR. The boss already knows we don’t get along and it’s a small place so there’s really no getting around staying away from her. Ever since I started she’d do weird things like I was wearing perfume and she walked past me mumbling under her breathe it smells like shit. I went up to her and asked her if that’s what she said because if my perfume was bothering her I wouldn’t wear it because I know people can be sensitive and she’s so “oh no I didn’t say that”… another time I had orders in my hand and she stuck her foot out an I tripped over her foot.. I was walking behind her and she was bent over and mumbled “dumb bitch” and I just stood henind her and she looked back and said “I’m talking to myself”… i enjoy my job, im happy with with my benefits, its close to home and I don’t want to leave solely because of her but I don’t know how to handle it… i talked to my family that’s very Christian and they’ll tell me to kill her with kindness because she’s obviously has something going on inside and projecting it on to me. I’m having a hard time wanting to be kind. They think it could change her heart by showing her how to be. Also there’s no directly talking to her because the few times I have she makes some sort of excuse.. instead of just admitting she doesn’t like me and respectfully staying away.

Me Scorpio F had this unspoken connection going on with Virgo M. Our connection is non verbal but felt. We’ve never really discussed what was going on between us, however I did directly bring it up once and after that the non verbal communication got stronger and more consistent… we recently got into an argument because I feel as though he overreacted to a situation and I left when he asked me to stay. I also texted him that I was over it all while being emotional.. he didn’t respond for a day then texted me today and agreed.. as a Scorpio I test boundaries a bit to see where I stand with someone and to build trust.. what I really wanted him to do was tell me “no that’s not what we’re doing, text me when you clam down”… we talked a bit today but the dynamic is different… he’s not the sweet gentleman I know him to be… I’m wondering if this is over or how I should handle it.. i like to think we have a pretty deep emotional connection seeing as we can jus read non verbal cues with each other. Is it easy for Virgos to just forget that? I still care and maybe I realized I shouldn’t have said something I didn’t truly mean about being done but sheesh he runs a strict program 😭 I just wanted him to fight for me a little

My child’s father has been arrested at least 2 for putting his hands on me. Anytime he starts to get aggressive I remind him if it happens again it becomes a felony so he resorted to having his gf harass me thru text & putting her hands on me today. She was not arrested because the officer couldn’t determine who was the aggressor. Their word against mine.. I’m looking to file a restraining order on both of them. I live a state over would I file in my state or his? Am I able to file a restraining order on him as well for setting that situation up? It happened during pick up. He brought his gf with him to put the baby in the car, a few words were exchanged & she attacked me. He’s mentioned a few times he was gonna have her beat my ass. He says a lot to trigger a reaction out of me so I really didn’t believe it.. I wish I was my proactive and called the police as I seen her walking to the car. Big learning lesson for me.