Why wasn't robb stark respected?
I've always felt like robbs power had been brittle and reliant on victories and results. He was 14-17 and thrust directly into war before he could even begin to consolidate his power in the war and I get that. But I always felt like robb lacked the intense following and reverence men like tywin, robert, randyll, stannis and other military leaders got. Like really, even after humiliating and defeating the lannisters so completely and massacring 3 hosts he was still never respected in the south or by tywin which I dont understand why.
Then the north gets raided by ironborn, his brothers die and winterfell gets captured, karstarks start pulling back and we really see this. How shakey robbs power had always been and that he was not given the deference you'd except for a genius tactician like robb.
Even robert, he had been away from the stormlands and fostering at the vale for quite the while, and his defeat at ashford and storms end getting besieged didnt effect him quite like it effect robb. Tywin lost battle after battle, even at the hands of edmure, westerlands themselves got pillaged by robb and his position never became shakey.
What could be the reason for this? What did robert and tywin have that robb stark lacked?