Is there such a thing as ethically rage quitting?
Basically the title, but here’s some more context:
I’m a brand new attorney, like licensed less than a month ago. Immediately after getting licensed, I was handed a full caseload covering for a colleague on maternity leave. On top of that, I’ve been helping with random projects and matters for the other attorneys. I’m getting basically no support or mentorship and feel like I’ve just been thrown to the wolves.
There’s been two incidents over the last few days that have put me at the limit. I’m just tired and can’t do this anymore. I stayed as a favor and now I’m getting my ass handed to bye because there’s little to no communication or support.
The firm is dysfunctional, there’s terrible communication, and it’s causing mistakes to happen constantly, some worse than others. My boss talks down to me and the staff because of it, but honestly a lot of the miscommunication and issues start at the top. On top of that, we keep taking new clients and matters even though we’re already well past our limit.
I already have another job lined up and I put in my notice because I’m moving states. My last day is supposed to be in 2 weeks. The only reason I agreed to stay this long was as a courtesy while my colleague is on leave. Meanwhile, my spouse has already moved, so we’re currently paying two rents and living 1,000+ miles apart.
Here’s my question: is rage quitting ethical? I don’t want to abandon clients, and I understand the firm being dysfunctional doesn’t erase my own obligations. But I also don’t have any pressing deadlines, and I only have one upcoming hearing that could easily be covered by someone else. I just genuinely don’t feel like I can do this anymore, and at this point I’d rather spend the next few weeks packing, decompressing, and seeing my husband before I move across the country and start my new job.