For those that were wayward and went back to AP (secretly) after initial discovery and who were working on R with partner- how do you justify doing that or what did you tell yourself to be able to do that KNOWING how it would effect your partner.
How does a BS get over this? My experience as BH- I am trying to work through my WW EA, and find out later that she started back up with AP and it moved to a PA. How do I keep working at reconciliation?
u/blindsided1981 — 9 days ago