man i missed sex
so i had disclosed to one guy in the 3ish months ive had ghsv1 and he said it was fine but he clearly did not want to have sex and said some crazy rude shit abt me having herpes. told him to get fucked 2 days ago when he texted again asking for head.
i’d been texting a new guy for a few days and went over to his place to meet him last night. about 30 minutes in i said so you know cold sores like hsv1? i have hsv1. he said his mom dad and sister all have ohsv1 and he knows he could be asymptomatic especially cuz his ex got it when they were together and he’d done a fair amount of research cuz she accused him. i told him i have ghsv1 from getting head from someone with ohsv1 and then he started talking about how the french essentially invented oral sex. i clarified that he’s fine with me having it since the french showing oral sex to american soldiers wasn’t really a clear answer lmao and he was pretty unphased. just got back from his place, i gave him head like 3 times and we had unprotected sex twice :) (ik he understands the risk and i am on daily antivirals - i think he assumes he has it already).
only thing better would be if he knew he already had it for sure. don’t settle for shit heads jus because you have herpes!!