it’s literally a pornbrained fetish term. it’s a gross term that triggers the same response in my brain that trans women calling themselves a “femboy” does. it’d be like if poc women used the word “ebony” to describe themselves. idc if this opinion is too woke i stand by it.
not even trying to be mean i just don’t get it. this sub is mostly a place to vent and complain ab not passing. especially baby trans ppl who are <3 yrs on hrt. kinda feels like the seniors in hs who would hang out with exclusively freshmen.
especially if u come on here to “humble” brag; what do u hope to achieve? oh wow! good for u! now fuck off and do something with the status so many of us will likely never achieve instead wasting ur time in this cesspit that doesn’t apply to u anymore.
i get wanting to stay in tttt spaces bc u relate to the culture of it all, but there are plenty of those outside of 4t4, such as artttt or the many selfie subs that are already overwhelmingly passoids anyway.
ultimately it’s ur life, but ik if i passed i would at worst only lurk here occasionally from then on. do not remain and worm urself into becoming a bddemon that never believes u pass like many here have fallen victim to.
like it’s gotten out of control. how u gonna talk ab being a hon when u post selfies once a fucking week? also shit like “wahhh i didn’t start hrt until 15 i was doomed from the start!” and u see they ALWAYS look at least androgynous. like yall cannot be fr..
genuinely look like a gross agp cross dresser. i cannot bring myself to man mode for my ceremony, though. my freakish shoulders will be covered by the gown at least. it just hurts to look a man. i will always look like a man. i will always be a man. fmstl iwnbaw
ogl was how i began hrt. being broke and living in a red state really limited my options on starting e, which meant DIY was my only real solution. so, ofc, cissoids had to ruin it. like they always do. any sense of control we have for our own bodies continue to be stripped away simply bc it challenges their world view. what a fucking joke.
-be me
-voicehon
-scrolling tiktok
-come across “mtf voice training”
-girl is talking about how she used to hate how masculine her voice used to be
-sounds cis while doing so
-maybe she has some good advice?
-“even though i started blockers at 13-“
-pause video
-block account
-4th time i’ve experienced something like this
-mfw
the voicehonlarping epidemic is getting ridiculous
practicing makeup? agp
voice training? agp
having remotely feminine hobbies? agp
dieting? agp
make friends with women? agp
the whole point of transitioning is to NEVER EVER EVER do anything to actually transition, just whine and mope about how u will never be a woman.
I just hit 9 months on hrt, and my life is objectively in the worst position i’ve ever been, and yet here i stand still alive after planning to kill myself before transitioning and over 3 months since i last sh. i had no future trying to continuously convince myself of living as a man.
even if it meant giving up nearly everyone, i am constantly reminded that there ARE people who accept me without question (even if is just a handful of people). one of the most religious guys i’ve ever known started calling me by my chosen name INSTANTLY and without judgement or slip up 🥹
some days or weeks are harder than others, but i’ve never taken care of myself like i have since transitioning. clothes, skincare, haircare, dental care. i went to the dentist for the first time time in almost a decade and now i fucking FLOSS occasionally.
i am objectively probably never going to make it if i’m being honest… but i suppose u never really know. i may never look the way i hope i will one day, but i will die trying.
never rep.