u/aridsemifinal

Genuinely asking because my mom keeps telling me my engagement ring and wedding band need to match my husbands ring and it needs to all look like a set. But like everything I see people wearing now is kind of mismatched on purpose and it looks amazing.

We're not super traditional people so I don't know why I'm even stressing about this. I think I just don't want to look back at photos and feel like something looks off. But also I don't want to follow some rule that nobody actually cares about anymore.

Curious what people here actually did and if you regret it or not.