Need urgent help – 5 years of stalking & harassment, family also targeted (India)
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Hi everyone,
I really need serious guidance.
For the past 5 years, an unknown person has been continuously harassing me through calls and messages. He uses different numbers (often international/VoIP), so blocking hasn’t helped.
What makes this worse:
* He somehow knows bits about my routine (like when I step out occasionally)
* He mentions things like CCTV to scare me
* He has contacted my parents and even relatives
* He doesn’t talk normally — just calls to disturb or intimidate
What I’ve already done:
* Changed phone, SIM, house, WiFi
* Limited social contact completely
* Filed complaints (no effective action so far)
* Blocked hundreds of numbers
At this point, I feel mentally exhausted and unsafe.
I’m not looking for illegal hacking or anything risky —
I’m looking for:
* Practical ways to identify how he might be getting information
* How to protect myself and my family better
* Any safe/ethical techniques to narrow down the source
* Advice from people who’ve handled similar stalking cases
If you’ve experienced something like this or have knowledge in cybersecurity / personal safety, please guide me.
Thank you.