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I passed by a rickshaw playing this song and remembered an experience 😭 😭

One and half year ago, my friend (who just turned to be 18) and a girl were deeply in Love... But due to cast issues, there families wouldn't agree at all... They would rather kill their girl than marrying to my friend... And my friend's family (they were middle class) would give everything to get him out of the country just to make sure he's out of the reach of the girl...

But, my friend is courageous man.... They both decided to do court marriage... And the girl ran out with him... After they had left their area, he called me and asked for a vehicle and financial assistance... I literally had nothing but took some udhaar and went to pick them up on my bike... Made them stay at the residence of another friend of mine for a night in Lahore... Next day, they married and lived for a week at different friend's places... By then, girl's family had come to know and they filed an Fir against my friend for kidnapping and forcing the girl to marry him... Now, the police eventually found them out and took in custody...

That bastard had called me around the time they ran, so I (about to be 18 then) got charged by assistance in kidnapping and was held at Shahdra police station... They asked for my parents details but I gave them wrong details and you know the way of Punjab police... They beat my up for whole night, next day, I contacter a lawyer uncle of mine and he somehow got me out.. if my father would've come to know.. I could have be homeless right now not here online on Reddit 😭 😭

The girl admitted that it was with her will and the case dismissed after a lot of drama and bribe... It was hard to arrange for both of us, but we somehow did...

The girl faced so much backslash in the beginning from my friend's family, but they eventually accepted her...

In short, the reason to tell this story is ke, himmat karo, Allah pe yakeen rakho aur action lo... Sab ho jata hai... Abhi soch soch ke halkan ho rahe ke kese hoga, kya Hoga? By God, jab situation aati hai na khud hi solutions mind mein aate jese divine help ho... Bro, please please please don't leave her... You need to win her trust and you're her safe space... Be a man and prove yourself.. you're baligh now... Family ke pressure mein apne right ko chorna khud gunah hai... Do court marriage, show up at home with her and tell everyone that you've done it... They can do anything about they want... I swear once you get out of it, you'll be at peace more than ever

Okay so everyone... These are my personal suggestions... I'm just a teenager student... Not a specialist.. I admit that I'm not an economist and maybe I'm missing out on many points... So, please if you don't agree, correct me, I'd appreciate it... Just be respectful and give your suggestions as well, I'd love to know..

So, No matter how much money Pakistan has... I think Pakistan should spend all its money in the following categories...

First of all, debt is an unavoidable problem of Pakistan.. so I think Pakistan should make it mandatory to use 20% of the yearly budget for paying off debt, if more payment is needed in a year, ask the debt-givers to extend the date for more interest..

Pakistan's budget should directly go to the essentials of People in National and International interests, which according to me are 4 departments... So from the remaining 80%..

15% should go to Military and Paramilitary forces

15% should go to the Agriculture & Textile Industry

10% on Health-care

10% on Education

Now comes the fate-deciding economic factors. From the remaining 30%:

5% on IT infrastructure

5% on other industrial Infrastructure

5% on Railways

5% Environmental Protection

5% on Sports and other schemes and projects

And the last 5% should be saved in case of any emergency.. like flood or زلزلہ etc...

What do you guys think of it?

The urge to do Gusl-e-Jumma with my wife together while helping clean the inaccessible areas (back) of each other 😔

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okay guys so this happened in june last year, it's a message that I sent a guy from India explaining the situation.. copied it here... and lemme just change names

Okay so.. You see, my town isn't a town or city historically, it was just a deserted place and was a battlefield for centuries.. before some time of partition, British ne is shahr ki bunyad rakhi with a railway station and Mandi..

after partition, people started to live in the nearby villages, is area ke.. so, as the nalands (supposed name of my town) colony was a market, to jitne bhi karobaar se related log the, unhon ne yahan par hi apne ghar banana shuru kardiye.. aahista aahista, log idhr aake rehna shuru hogye, un logon mein hi mere grand grand grandfather bhi the.. population barhti gayi.. aur jab aik gaun ban gya to government ne is ko national services provide karna start kardin..

it was kinda big kyunke har taraf se log aate the.. ab dusre gaun mein jo mukhtalif qabile rehte the, vo bhi idhr migrate hona start hogaye, un logon ka asr wagera dekh ke jo un ke rival qabile the, unhon ne khud ko khatre mein paaya ke agar opposition party ka ilake ki sab se bari market mein hold hoga to unke hath se to political power jati rahe gi.. is liye unhon ne bhi migration shuru kardi..

tab tak koi bhi danga fasad nahi hua tha.. han jis jagah se log aate the, wahan pe boht dange chalte the.. lekin nalands aik opportunities ka shehr tha, gaun ke logon ke liye, chunke ye government ki sakht nazar mein tha, to koi bhi party larayi ki start nahi karna chahti thi..

Then time guzarta gya... Jab tak, yahan itni abadi hogayi ke ye aik election centre ban gya, aik halka ban gya, ke jahan se parliament aur national assembly mein aik member choose hona tha.. utni der tak idhr multiple groups ka, multiple muhallon mein power, fear aur paise ki madad se hold tha.. logon ki support thi.. in mein se Dagra, Ghumman Jutt, Sandhu aur kuch aur parties thin, including my family,

Ab jis ko bhi politics mein aana tha, unhen in parties aur in ke under community ki support chahiye thi, aka votes chahiye the.

Ab apke zehn mein ye sawal aaraha hoga ke general public in groups ko support kyun karti thi is ki wajah ye thi ke public ko milne wali facilities in groups se aati thin, like gareeb logon ke ghar khana in powerful groups ki madad se banta tha, dudh dahi, ya bachon ki basic education ki fees dete the.

Badle mein logon se apne pasand ke umeedwar ko votes dilwate the..

Yehi sab chalta raha, jo bhi MPA (member of parliament assembly) ya MNA (member of National assembly) banta tha vo in groups ki support se hi banta tha... Is tarah shuru hui nalands mein power politics..

Phir, jis group ke pasand ka politician power mein aata, vo group badmashi karna shuru kardeta tha.. kafi der tak aisa hi chalta raha..

hamari family bhi kafi der tak is mein rahi.. aur hamari support ke bina koi bhi banda election jeet nahi sakta tha, abhi bhi aap jab nalands ayo ge to kisi buzurg se puch Lena Allah Ditta ya Mehr Deen ke barey mein, sab bata den ge.

Lekin phir, mere grand grandfather Mehr Deen ki death ke baad, mere grandfather aur unke cousins ne faisla kiya ke hamari family ab is sab se dur rahe gi aur aik aam Zindagi guzaren ge, Karobar karke...

Ham ne taqreeban apni sari zameen bech di thi tab... Aur gaun se hamari family completely nalands shift hogaye the..

Kher, kafi der tak aisa hi chalta raha... Eventually, 2009 mein jab hamara dictator Parwez Musharraf ka rule khatam hua aur Pakistan People's Party ki government bani..

tab nalands mein bhi yehi party government mein ayi, aur iske member Chaudhary Liaqat Ali Dagra ne badmashi ki sari haden par kardin... Assassinations, murders, aur kya kuch nahi.. phir is se bachne ke liye, logon ne apne pas dubara se weapons rakhna shuru karliye..

kher, ham is sab se bache rahe cause ham ab is mein nahi the.. to koi fikr nahi thi... Is time pe sectarian dange fasad, political laraiyan.. sab kuch top pe tha..

Aur nalands ki sarzameen aik baar phir maidan e jang ban gayi... Sadiyon se dabi hui khoon ki dastan, aik baar phir likhi gayi.. aur buri cheez ye hui ke media ki wajha se, ab student class bhi is sab mein shamil thi...

Is tarah, do college students ki political wings ISF and MSF wujood mein ayin.. ISF, PTI (Imran khan party) ka wing tha and MSF, PMLN (Nawaz Sharif party) ka.. in ki bhi larayian top pe thin.. boht danga fasad hua..

Us ke baad, aj se taqreeban 6-7 saal pehle, ISF ka jo new leader bana, vo peace loving tha, zyada details mein nahi jata, lekin kuch na kuch karke, dono parties mein peace hogya..

aur sath hi, jo politician new bana tha, vo Malik party ki himayat karta tha, and Maliks were also peace loving.. tab se ab tak koi bari larayi to nahi hui, lekin thori boht nafrat hai..

Ab mere sath kya hua ye batata hun..

Aik masle par ye students mein larayi ka mahol phir garam ho raha tha, to mein us mein dono parties ka numainda tha, yani dono ke darmayan baat kara raha tha.. ISF and MSF..

ham na aik under construction housing society mein bethe hue is pe baat kar rahe the.. ke us society ka guard aaya aur ham se badtameezi se kehne laga ke yahan se chale jao.. mein tab MSF ke sath tha betha tha, unhon ne kaha ke ham ne nahi jana, to ye baat us guard ne ISF ke leader Bakhtawar ko bata di, vo mera acha dost hai wese..

aur us guard ne jhoot bola ke ham ne us se badtameezi ki hai aur dhamki di hai, is pe ISF ke logon ko gussa agya ke MSF wale hamari jagah pe beth ke hamare guard ko dhamki kese de rahe hein..

to un logon ne aake darane ke liye zameen pe firing shuru kardi, ham bhi alert hogaye, ab hamein nahi pata tha ke ye kon hein, to jawab mein MSF walo ne bhi apni pistol nikal ke firing shuru kardi..

phir gusse mein aake ISF ne ham pe direct fires start kardiye, mere samne se bullets ja rahi thin.. Ab mujhe bhi gussa aaya to meine MSF wale dost se kaha ke weapons mangvao, apne defense ke liye, ham jawab den ge.. abhi tak pata nahi tha ke vo ISF wale hein..

meine bhi firing shuru kardi, vo log jagah jagah cover liye bethe the, aur ham aik side hote hote qabaristan ki diwar ke peeche chupe hue the...

Goliyon ki awaz se sara mohalla ikattha hogya, to logon ne firing band karwayi, hamare weapons aane se pehle jab firing ruki to ham baahir aye aur Bakhtawar ne mujhe pehchaan liya aur phir mein ne sari baat batayi..

is pe Bakhtawar ne us guard ko danta aur mafi mang ke baat khatam karne pe aaya, meine MSF walon se baat ki aur sham tak kisi na kisi tarah mamla settle karwa diya..