u/__does_not_matter_

I believe Fi child focused INTJs, especially females very often end up labeling themselves as mainly INFP sometimes ENFP. I believe this pattern is so common that it may have influenced the community's perception of INFPs and ENFPs to some degree.

NFPs are not big on stalking, they do not have Se they do not care about the routines, skills, habits or details of physical health of other people. NFPs are willing to bend the truth to their liking for their own benefit and have a difficult time acknowledging that what feels good may not be right (because they do not have full awareness of all the Te information regarding the other party)

INTJs are big on stalking because they project their ENTP shadow onto their potential interests and research their private life to discover what Si habits do they really have, because the ENTP typically doesn't consciously care about that all that much in public on average I believe. INTJs whislt being able to express the most sincere emotions and purest form of desire for morality are able to differentiate between feelings and correctness, acknowledging that as pure and honest as their feelings may be, there are times where without additional information the judgement process wouldn't have come with a fitting decision. An INTJ is aware of this on at least a subconscious level which allows the INTJ to be a good listener with the ability to choose what is most just, hence that is what the INTJ desires most, justice for all based on universal Te standards.

I presume one can achieve the most by feeling limtless and naturally confident within, by detaching themselves from desire.

Even so, I tend to end up not being at ease when I take into consideration what's happening around the world that shouldn't happen, because it's not natural for a will of any being to go in the direction of self-betrayal in the form of actions or intentions I believe.

I feel like even tho I haven't solved myself completely (haven't apologised to the people I did wrong in person, haven't shared my true feelings about the treatment of my parents of myself with my parents in person, didn't confront and process through all of my negative past memories) I feel like if there's something I am supposed to do, I can do it alone no matter how large scale it would be.

I feel like I cannot fulfill what I am to fulfill (if that is the case) without attachment to morality. Thus I believe I have to choose one.

Which choice you feel you would you make in this situation?