I'm struggling to navigate this, I'm not sure I can keep going.
Tonight she threatened to take our son away from me, she informed me she has been telling her councilor that I abuse her. So if I call the police she will have our son taken away from me.
This started with me saying I was going to shower after I got home from work (I work in road construction, I was covered in rock dust and dirt, also probably some tar.)
This was not what she wanted to hear and led to a full blow screaming match about who was going to dry and put clothing on our 3 year old son after she dragged him into the shower with her. During which she seems to enjoy calling me a cunt in front of our son.
This is has been my new normal since she when off her ssri because it wasn't working for her depression. Now as of a couple of months ago she has told me she has PMDD.
I'm not sure if the ssri was helping manage it before, but from my perspective it just seems to be getting worse over the course of this year.
After she had calmed down and our boy was dressed I was trying to chat to a men's helpline, they were not helpful.
She saw me typing on my phone and has since accused me of reporting her to child services.
Basically can someone on her please tell me if this is the type of thing I'm going to have to deal with for as long as we remain together?
Because I had been thinking I'm just in an abusive relationship for awhile now, tho I had that opinion after her behaviour towards me when she has been drinking. But I can't remember if she was ment to be in a PMDD window during those times as we had just had our baby so periods were not a happening thing.
Sorry I seem to be rambling, but I'm trying to figure out if all the "you trigger me" and "your responable for this because you know I'm a week out" is just her way of excusing the abusive behaviour or is actually something I am now expected to deal with 2 weeks of every month?