Indiana Center for Recovery Inpatient care
hi everyone! my fiance is currently in the inpatient care program at the Bedford location for Indiana Center for Recovery. and today I have been having a really bad feeling in my gut. Here is a summarized version.
Last Friday he called and did a consultation with them, and they started pressuring him to go in and do a 30 day inpatient program. they were like we will send someone to pick you up right now. neither of us were thinking inpatient, we were looking for outpatient programs. after some arguing she knocked it down to 7 days but was really pushing that he get picked up immediately (for reference he wasnt a harm to himself or anyone else, we were just looking for a regular group and guidance with his medicatio). so we told her they could pick him up at 9:30AM on Wednesday. she disagreed but signed him up anyways.
then Wednesday comes and at 8:30 they call and say there is a second person near us so they won’t be picking up Elijah until 2pm so they would grab them together. I thought this was strange since our insurance is paying a lot of money and we didn’t know what was going on with this other person.
2pm rolls around and they claim the other guy pushed his pick up time back to 8 pm.
then he gets to the facility and they don’t have his name correct in the computer so it takes an hour for them to get it fixed. during this time he also asked when visitation was, they said they don’t allow it, but you can talk to your therapist about getting a 10 minute phone call a day. he had been prescribed for 15 minutes of FaceTime a day.
now today I get a call from him and another lady asking about the contacts of our lawyer since he is gojng though some legal issues, and he chats with me for 5 minutes but he ain’t super talkative. he said he would call at 6:30 because that would be after my interview.
about an hour later I had a guy call that is apart of the family support group, he asked a bunch of background questions. but then he asked me if my fiancé called me right now and said he didnt like it here and he wanted to stop would I convince him to stay and continue treatment. in my head I was like hell no because he went into this voluntarily and excited to get better so if he wanted to leave there was a reason. but I said I would do what is best for him.
6:30 comes and goes and I never heard from my fiance. On the phone earlier he said he wasn’t sure if he was ready for FaceTime since he is still settling in, but that doesn’t sound like him at all. At the last place he asked me to visit or call as much as possible (this was 2 weeks ago), so I am not sure if he is trying to tell me something or not.
anywho I need your advice and stories from being there!