did someone forge my DA letter?
hi yall. 28F here, hard faded June 2024. I quietly left because i’m gay and dating another woman.
I’ve had intermittent contact with my mom, and we’ve been talking more lately. She seems okay with it because i’m just inactive. She told the elders on me back in October 2024 when she forced me out of the closet and found out about my partner. No one ever contacted me. My mom has asked on many occasions if anyone has yet contacted me. (PS. The answer is still no.)
She brought it up this week when we were laying on the beach, again I said no. She went home and called one of the elders to ask them why. Apparently, they are unanimously understanding that I wrote in a DA letter. My mom immediately called me to confront me with zero warning the next morning. I told her I didn’t do that, and she said she is going to contact them to get proof of the letter, because she “knows my handwriting to confirm if it was me or not.” I said “even if you do that, and its clarified that I didn’t write anything, I still don’t want them to call me right now”.
I wondered if my best friend out of state who went behind my back to get my hall’s elders information had written something in when I wasn’t honest with her.
Very strange circumstance, and very boundary crossing for my mom to be so desperate about the elders calling me. It’s been 2 years!