What is Biological basis of a mothers unique conditional love they have for their child
I've always been curious about this topic and would like to hear your thoughts, opinions and any known research!
99% of Mothers I meet always say the love they have for their child is unique, unlike anything they’ve felt before and are able to identify that it is different from the love they feel towards their partner/parents etc. It seems to be unconditional and at time emotionally overwhelming. I’ve added a link to another reddit post that gives more insight on the feeling.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/s/Oqoc4Dvut6
- Does anyone know what the biological basis / neurological mechanisms are for this?
- Is there evidence on when this happens?
- Do other biological changes occur?
- Are there changes that occur during the physical birth
- And if so do women who have C-sections experience the same changes?
- Are there associated changes in men and how/when does this occur?
I’ve read that there’s a reduction in gray matter, neural pruning and increase in oxytocin. I’ve also heard the theory that it developed as a survival mechanism, women’s brain chemistry alters to feel huge amounts of love for their children in order to ensure they are cared for and survive (I may have this wrong)
Another aspect is if we could identify the neurological changes that occur, could we find a way to replicate these changes in people who adopt or use surrogacy, either by personal choice or because they cannot bear children?
Obviously if this were possible it would be the persons choice, and it would have to be ethical and safe.
Thanks for your time!! Any and all comments, info and opinions are appreciated!
If you disagree with any of this please don’t take it personally! Just a curious discussion!!