Hollowness after break up! <Not seeking direct solutions>
I have been feeling a strange kind of heavy hollowness in me after initiating the breakup with my girlfriend. Its a stronger feeling to adjust to any distractions available to me. And my partner also feels the same.
We know that we are not compatible to each other in terms of life priorities, attachment styles, ideology, professional goals/purposes and even location. This relationship does not make sense to any level and we both know it but since we have this heavy feeling of hollowness we keep getting back to each other and then fight again. This loop is frustrating now!
I am not seeking a direct solution. I just want to understand this feeling in depth. why this feeling? is this feeling only for romantic relationships? Is it just the habit of each other which creates this hollowness when we are not together or is there more to it? what role does distractions play? How can I see for what this feeling really is than acting upon it? And anything more you'd want to add!