Dating In The South Sucks!
Is it too much to ask for people to not be homophobic? Is it too much to expect the person you’re dating to see immigrants as people? To maybe not be racist? Or misogynistic? I feel like I’m going crazy!
No I don’t think black people lower property value. No I don’t think poor people don’t deserve to eat. No I don’t care if someone is on EBT. No I’m not afraid of Muslims taking over America. These are all real things that men have said to me in a date setting.
What is going on?
I shouldn’t have to explain that you should care about other people. It’s so exhausting constantly meeting guys and then finding out they’re somehow worst than the last. Like you aren’t 65. There’s no reason for you to continue this hateful rhetoric.
But it doesn’t matter because woman will still date them, and then when they finally break up they’ll reveal something like “Oh my white boyfriend used to say the N word”, or “Oh he actually thought woman were lesser beings but I was so embarrassed I never told anyone”. They are just as bad for facilitating those ideas.
I just want a nice normal man that I don’t have to explain the concept of empathy to every time we have a conversation.